"The Tale of the Cheesy, Superficial Side of Me"
So, I have a major superficial weakness, folks. It is my hair. When it comes to my hair, the 'old man' has not been eradicated. I think that the Lord wanted to use a situation this weekend to help eradicate this superficiality in me, though.
I was not going to share this, but it really is just too funny a story and then when I took these pictures for my mom, I had a good chuckle at how cheesy I was and I just couldn't resist making it blog material.
Here is what happened...
My almost 9 month old highlights were getting annoying & really bad looking (so I thought). On top of that, I was getting tired of spending the money to keep them up (which is why it had been 9 months). I, in all my brilliance, decided that since money was tight and I didn't want to pay an arm and a leg to have someone do it, I would take matters into my own hands and dye it back to my au-naturale myself.
Morgan helped me scan the insta-color boxes on the shelf at Fred Meyer and we found what we thought was the "perfect one".
***Side note*** for any of you who are thinking, "She's dying her hair and she's PREGNANT??!!!! How irresponsible! I did lots of research before and came to the conclusion this was a safe procedure at this time in my pregnancy, as I had also been told by many hair dressers and medical professionals. Now-a-days, many dyes come without ammonia.
***Resuming story*** It was a deep brown with some slight red tones in it- much like my natural color! Perfect- so I thought. Well, not so much.
It turned out to be a bright red! VERY fake- screamed- look at me!!! I was devastated!!!!!! I called my hair dresser and asked for advice. Still trying to save money, she suggested I find a semi-permanent medium brown dye to cover it and see if that worked. The result was this:
...still too red for my taste. Alas- I tried living with it for a week. Over this time, I let my pride fall down. It looked awful folks. This picture doesn't even do it justice, b/c it's dark. When a light shone on it, it looked like an old woman's REALLY bad dye job!
I really did have nightmares and heartburn about it every night. This was my long hair- with a ugly permanent dye on it!! What was I going to do????
I succumbed. Called the hairdresser. Oh well- the money will come from somewhere. Maybe we should set up a "save the Angela's hair" fund, I thought. But then, No, alas I realized my superficiality did this to myself, and I would have to sacrifice to remidy it.
So today I visited my hairdresser. She had never looked so much like an angel before! Our only solution to keeping my hair healthy was to do a dark brown. It didn't get all the red, but TRUST ME- it's SO much better!!! I kindof like it. I also had to have a deep conditioning treatment done cause all the dyeing was drying out my hair.
When I got home, I took some pictures. I laughed at how cheesy they look. I thought I would post so you could laugh with me. I'm a dork. Truly, I am. I do not deny it.
I embrace my dorkiness.
Lesson learned in the hair department. Upon returning home today, I've been thinking, "what's the spiritual significance in this?" Was it just to teach me a lesson about my superficial pride or was it something more?
So below are some pictures of what it looks like now...embrace my dorkiness with me, folks!
9 comments:
Well thanks for sharing! I've had many a story like that in my hair adventures! Glad to know one is not alone! Yes, it is quite a bit darker...but I like it!! I think it looks nice on you and I'm sure you'll get used to it! I'm also sure it will fade as they almost always do! It's a nice warm shade for Fall and the approaching winter! (Plus it is super shinny!)
P.S. I did the same no more foils, back to the original color process right after Mya was born. The upkeep, the cost, the length, the time....all so much. Once you stop your natural highlights came back through in time anyways...
Well golly gee wiz, thanks Kristi!
I think I like it too. It's a change!
Foils schmoils. Too much moolah.
Baby gets the moolah now.
hair woes are serious business. looks like she salvaged your color quite nicely. I like the dark look. I've had MANY terrible hair dye jobs myself throughout college years and am in the middle of growing back the natural. God knew what He was doing when He made our hairs their respective natural colors, eh? It's great to learn things about ourselves and be open to God speaking to us even through fashion mishaps. Way to post with humor and humility Ang ;)
I smile :) Cute story, and from what I can tell the hair looks great...thanks for sharing your story! I like the look of the darker color on you (very partial to dark hair myself) :-)
I will never die my hair on my own because when I did, it cost me 207.00 to replace it and 5 hours in the hair salon.
*** I will never dye** opps
Heather- 5 hours!! WHat did they have to do? Sounds like a good story.
I'm glad to know there are others who have understood the woe of my week.
(singing) you're so vain, i bet you think this song is about you...
i think it runs in the family. blaine and i are pretty vain as well.
oh goodness. All I could do when I read your comment was shake my head, laugh, and hum "Your so vain. I bet you think this song is about you..." :-)
Yes, I do see a pattern here. Little brother seems to think he needs to buy all his clothes at REI (north face). ALthough I do need to give him credit- he's given up on Abercrombie I think. I find though that as I mature and grow in Christ, I think I am becoming less vain over time. As we all will.
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